But this is the English language we’re talking about here, and so the confusion about spelling can be taken—without even trying very hard—to even greater extremes... some would say, to extremes of biblical proportions. And here, of course, I’m thinking of Saint Paul’s words to the Corinthians on the subject of love: it bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.
The kind of love in 1 Corinthians 13 is special. It’s not romantic love or the love of equals, but divine love—or at least that’s how Christians have come to interpret that special word ἀγάπη. I know some of you grew up with the old Authorized (or “King James”) Version of the Bible, and in that translation, Paul doesn’t talk about love in the Love Chapter, but charity. You’ve heard me mention this before, but the Bible the Pilgrims had in their hands when they landed at Plymouth Rock wasn’t the relatively new version authorized by King James, but the older Geneva Bible, which they felt was a better translation. And maybe they were right. For example, 1 Corinthians 13 in the Geneva Bible is much easier for us to read because it calls love love, not charity.
I. Barely Concealed
And this is a beautiful thing to say about love. It’s no wonder that this passage is so often read at weddings. It’s both an assurance about love and an exhortation to love: An assurance, because it helps give us confidence in the power of love; and an exhortation, because it reminds us of one of the responsibilities of love.
II. The Power of Love
So let’s look at the phrase love bears all things from those two perspectives. First, love is strong. It holds up under all things. Physical weakness doesn’t weaken love. Sickness doesn’t diminish it. Poverty doesn’t rob it of its riches. Love bears all things.
But if we look at the other meaning of that verb in the Greek, I think we see an even more powerful side of love. Love covers all things, that is, it protects all things. A wonderful example of this would be the protective covering of a parent over a child, even when (or especially when) the child goes the wrong way or makes a mistake. Love is like a shield over those who need protection.
One translation says (rather crassly) that Love puts up with all things. While this is certainly a possible way of looking at it, I don’t think it’s the most loving way. If I love someone, I do more than put up with them. I can put up with many things for which I feel no love: dirt, sleet, cauliflower, and American League baseball, to name but a few. This is why we ask in a wedding ceremony if one person will love, comfort, honor, and keep the other. Not once in a wedding service is one party asked to put up with the other. That’s because love is both more beautiful and more powerful than that. God doesn’t just put up with us, but covers us with grace.
III. The Demands of Love
But as supportive as love is, it is also demanding. For we are not just God’s children, the recipients of God’s protective care. We are also those who are called upon to share that which we’ve received.
And so as Christians, we are called upon to love. Since God loved us so much, we also ought to love one another. So all those words that Paul uses to describe the power of love? They’re also the responsibilities of love. Freely we have received, freely we are asked to give.
There are times when love is enough. But sometimes it seems that it’s not. Though love can bear all things, there are times in our lives when love doesn’t overcome all things.
It’s not that love cannot. But we can’t find a way to make it work. We don’t have the wisdom… or maybe even the formula… to make it work.
Marriage is certainly one area where this happens. But it’s not the only one. It’s possible in any relationship, and it’s as likely to happen in the church as it is anywhere else. Maybe even a little more likely, since church is the place where we talk about this kind of love the most, and it’s the place where ἀγάπη love’s demands are felt most acutely.
Love requires forgiveness. But sometimes when forgiveness is demanded from someone who isn’t willing to live as part of the community, we don’t know how to bear that which we’re told has to be borne.
Conclusion: That Other Love Chapter
That’s when it’s important to remember that love isn’t just a concept, and it’s more than an emotion. It is God… or at least God is it. It wasn’t Paul, but John who said in his love chapter, So we have known and believe the love that God has for us. God is love, and those who abide in love abide in God, and God abides in them.
This helps us to see the fullness of love, and the extent God was willing to go to to prove to us that love bears all things, or that love covers all things. God is love, and God can bear even those things that we cannot. Far from being an excuse for not being loving, the nature of God is both our example and our strength when we are faced with difficult situations.
Though we know about the power of love and the responsibilities of love, we are human. So we don’t necessarily have the wisdom to love with God’s love. Sometimes we might even have to admit that we are not God, and that Christ can carry a cross that is too heavy for us to bear.
—©2016 Sam L. Greening, Jr.
 The Bare Necessities was written by Terry Gilkyson and released in 1967. It was sung in the movie by Phil Harris (Baloo the Bear) and Bruce Reitherman (Mowgli). Apparently in the 2016 version of The Jungle Book, the song will be included with Bill Murray singing it as Baloo.
 1 Corinthians 13:7
 This verb is used four times in the New Testament (each time by Paul), and in every instance, the meaning is similar to 1 Corinthians 13:7. See 1 Corinthians 9:12; 1 Thessalonians 3:1 & 5.
 This is how Preben Vang chooses to translate it in the commentary on 1 Corinthians in the Teach the Text commentary series (Grand Rapids: Baker, 2014), p. 173.
 Common English Bible, New Testament published in 2010.
 See 1 John 4:11 and Matthew 10:8.
 1 John 4:14. The words “God is love” also appear in verse 8. John 3:16 also refers to love as God’s method of self-revelation.